So i tried again, this time i disabled the igpu in device manager, then removed RTX amd installed the AMD RX6600… worked this time and has been stable on mutliple boots / tests etc.. I guess i needed to disable the igpu first before getting the RX6600 installed. Maybe anyone who is looking to do similar would be to try uninstalling and installing the drivers in safe mode first for both AMD gpu’s.
I also noticed that the RAM went down to 28gb so i booted to the bios and set the igpu memory to it’s lowest setting which was 512mb and the available ram went back up to 31.3gb.. Considering the egpu has 8gb itself, i think this is a win.
So in the end it’s working now to my original intent and stable. GPU performance is much improved now (not that the 780m was bad, it’s a cracker of a igpu)
Next time i’d just consider getting the mini pc model that allows docking into the beelink egpu dock but for those that didn’t this has worked well for me in the end.